Everyone gets upset when their friends go to a different college or when a family member leaves to start college. Even teachers get upset when their students go off to college, but in the end no matter what college someone goes to their friends, family, and teachers will all be proud. Each person has their own way of dealing/learning to accept that they will be losing someone to a different college or just college in general, but here are some responses on how students, a brother, and a teacher will be effected by someone going off to college.